Online Seduction: How to Make Him Want To Date You

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Published on May 28th, 2015 | by Joan Makai

The internet has allowed people to connect with each other even if they are separated by miles of land and seas. And we’re not just referring to someone working abroad and so far from his family or loved ones, we are referring to the very popular way of finding love in a click of a mouse – online dating. Indeed online dating sites have allowed people to find love. It gives equal opportunity to those who are looking for someone special to spend the rest of their lives with.

But it’s not as easy as some people first thought it would be. In fact, it’s even harder because you really can’t turn the charm on when you’re just typing the words which are better, and would be more effective, said.

So here’s how you could seduce any man online and make him want to meet you.

  1. Beautiful Profile Picture and Photo Gallery

Let’s face it: men are visual creatures and so online seduction starts from the very beginning – your profile photo. Don’t worry though that you don’t look like a Victoria’s Secret supermodel. That’s not what all men want, anyway. Just make sure that your photos are well presented, flattering and, most importantly, real.

Do add that ‘ugly’ photo as well but please avoid those wacky shots that show your teeth or the rest of your soul hilariously! It sure look fun for your friends and loved ones but it could be a turn-off if you want to meet someone special.

  1. A Great Description of Yourself

It’s hard for men to strike up a conversation with a woman they like. So give them something that they can converse about. Follow up that nice photo of yours with a short description about yourself. You like going to the beach?  You’ve always wanted to learn how to surf. You love just lying down on under the sun with a cool drink beside you. Anything will do really!

  1. Be Confident, Steer Away from Negativity

Some people might tell you that being shy, meek and quiet are qualities that men adore. Those people may have been stuck in the 1940s, including your Republican grandfather. It’s different these days. Men are attracted to women who are oozing self-confidence.

Do lessen the ‘I hate this, I loathe that…’ sort of conversation. It’s childish and utterly irritating for men – or anyone for that matter. Focus instead on light and engaging topics that you could talk to all night. It won’t harm to make him fall for you by just being witty and intelligent.

Do take note that this is a double-edged sword. You don’t want to come on too hard because it could turn some men off. You don’t want to seem to be too forward either because the man might want something more than what you’re willing to give.

Be seductive but leave some to one’s imagination. Remember, your goal is to be able to meet that person. And once you do, that’s when you decide if you really want to take it to the next level.

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